Three steps????

[Scottish Guy]

Originally Posted by blue-eyed-gem

I am a deep thinker as well, but not from boredom, but past experiences so i get that.

Thay do say that home is were the heart lise....follow your heart....life is to short!
But why are you on your own?

It is sort of true.

I am alone cause I choose not to get attached to anything. I don't really want to be settled here.

Back home in Scotland I have a home, but no job.

I have a job here but no home, so I work non stop day and night.

I got plans and in order to make these plans come true I need to make sacrifices, sacrifices like being away from home.

Its not to bad though I am use to it now, kinda like my own company now and enjoy the alone time. Become real independent and self sufficient because of it.

What about you whats up with your life what do you do?

It gives you alot of time to think about the meaning of things.

[blue-eyed-gem]

I dream of moving to Scotland
From what i have read and been told of Scotland and the pictures i have seen (by a family member) it is a beautiful and wondrous place, and that's when i fell in love with Scotland. But i know it will never happen, so i just dream.

I am planing a holiday there however in April which i am very much looking forward to.

and for the questions.....i don't think you would wont to hear it.

I was told a quote a few months ago and it stuck with me, so now it try and live by it:

"live in the present, remember the past and fear not the future for it doesn't exist and never shall there is only now"

It's very true for me as i don't think or worry about the future any more, I only take one day at a time now.


And i wish you all the best in the world on your move!......
I am presuming you are moving!.....and moving....very far away!
please correct me if i am wrong.....i don't mean to presume to much...sorry!

[Scottish Guy]

Originally Posted by blue-eyed-gem

I dream of moving to Scotland
From what i have read and been told of Scotland and the pictures i have seen (by a family member) it is a beautiful and wondrous place, and that's when i fell in love with Scotland. But i know it will never happen, so i just dream.

I am planing a holiday there however in April which i am very much looking forward to.

and for the questions.....i don't think you would wont to hear it.

I was told a quote a few months ago and it stuck with me, so now it try and live by it:

"live in the present, remember the past and fear not the future for it doesn't exist and never shall there is only now"

It's very true for me as i don't think or worry about the future any more, I only take one day at a time now.


And i wish you all the best in the world on your move!......
I am presuming you are moving!.....and moving....very far away!
please correct me if i am wrong.....i don't mean to presume to much...sorry!

But Scotland is only like 5 hours away from you its not even far, I have drove it many times. Scotland is cheaper for property aswell, I can't see how it will never happen for you if you want it to.

April is ages away why so long, I travel up every 3 weeks, its £60 on easyjet its nothing if you book in advance.

I am a total future worrier, I think you need to be a bit of both.

I want to move abroad by 30 if I don't I have seriously failed my goals.

I still got 4 years though to make it there.

Email me if you like robertdavie@hotmail.co.uk

[blue-eyed-gem]

Where i live it's a 8 hour drive non stop and i have never driven on the motorway before (even thou i have been driving for three years)......it scares me to death, so i'm going to do a few short journey's first before i attempt the long haul.

and trying to fly there was giving me a right headache.........

April because "money" the accommodation that i need is quite expansive. the cheapest quote i have found on the net is £477 for 6 nights...

and don't think that you have failed in any of your goals. If you don't get there by the time you are 30....just think of it like they are just postponed for a little. Remember the future is never set and your goal's could always change.

and i have uploaded 2 photos to my MSN skydrive if you want to put a face to the name as the one i am currently using is out of date by 5 years (i couldn't be bothered to change it)