Seeking that one special man
I live in a country where men are too scared to open a door for a woman, for fear of getting a lecture. Sure...they seem to be more willing to share their feelings than most, but expect the woman to hold an equivelant role to their own, in the relationship. They are faithful, but not protective (they feel a woman should be able to care for herself). They give a woman freedom to work, but not the freedom to be a full-time wife and mother. This is what I desperately desire.
I'm at the age where I want to start a family. I want to be in a traditional role. I long to take care of a husband and family... something women in the US would rarely admit to. I want to be able to rely on a husband, but only because I can trust he won't allow anything negative to happen to his family.
Since, there is no chance of signing up for an arranged marraige and having the matter settled for me (strange how men aren't interested in mail order brides from the birthplace of feminism -smile-), before I hit 35, I will resort to this little plea. Maybe you're out there and brave enough to take a leap that will begin a few generations of children and grandchildren.
Me: I'm average attraction, 5'5", auburn hair, hazel eyes, educated (bachelor of science). I love my family, but my career field has kept me from living near them for many years. So, relocation is not a problem. I love the outdoors and would love to live in a rural setting. I've not dated much, as my career path has lead me to move often. Being shy, I rarely get used to a place before I move again. I'm wholesom, loyal, modest, honest, nuturing, loving, feminine, a hard worker, Catholic. I want a man who can take care of me and who will let me take care of him and his family.
You: Must want children, be family oriented, kind to me... and of course a good man, willing to be a modest provider. Respond and maybe we'll start our communication.
PS My great grandfather came from Inverness... based on stories passed down within my family (about the men on the Scotish side), I thought maybe I'd give it a try.
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