Love on-line?

[kattoy]

Thanks for the replies guys

Kat

[mee]

I know this is an older thread but i cant help myself lol
i have to agree with mistress and talon. it can happen . as i am currently speaking with someone online, who knows what tomorrow will bring .. ( this particular person will probably choke me for this lol, i hope not maybe he will forgive me lol)im sure he will he is such a sweetheart!

[Princess_Royal]

Hi mee..lol..I think I will join up with you in postin late on this topic.

Oh man..online love..this is a toughy, I cant find words for what I feel like sayin..lol. I guess really, its diff for everyone, and I do realize that goes without sayin. I have met lots of people online...some are still my friends, some arent. When I first started venturin out into the on-line world, I was lookin for something, a connection with someone, its what I wanted, and a couple of times thought I found. But I was wrong, and I learned from my mistakes. I stopped focusing on thoughts that there is someone out there for me to give me what I want..and I started focusin on what I had. In the process of my "search" I came across a few people that are, even now, some of the most amazing people I know. They helped fill this gap inside, and in the process, I got a thicker skin. And I stopped lookin for "love" where there was none to be had to begin with.
Has anyone ever told you that if you want to find something, then sometimes you have to stop lookin? I had for the longest time, put myself in the hands of fate..what will be, will be...and all that good stuff. Well, then something happened. This guy and I, who Ive talked to plenty of times before anything began to change between us, we started realizin that we have so much in common, we make each other laugh, we want alot of the same things out of life. I guess to finally answer your question kattoy, I do believe that love can be found online, but to a certain extent. As close as me and this guy have become, I've come to love the idea of him and I've come to love the way he makes me laugh and the feelings he brings to the surface of me. But I cant honestly say that I love love him yet. I know that I have his heart, and he knows he has mine, but neither of us is ready to give ourselves comepletely over to the other without meetin face to face first. And i know there's always this fear of, what if its not like we expected, but more than the fear, is the feelin of excitement the feelin of butterflies in your tummy..lol. If there is one thing we have alot of right now, it's time, and we use our time talkin each others ears off, just so we can know each other as much as possible and know for certain that this is what we want.
Anyway...I hope all that made sense to ya'll..

[tayman]

can love online happen?
why not it is not so different to any other way of meeting people only difference is you don't actually know what they lok like.
but you still have to trust that what they say is true
and be honest with them in return, just like in any other relationship.
I also am chatting to someone (special? time will tell but looks good so far) who I met online right here on scotland .com actually and from the various mail we sent and certain posts I can tell that she is a good-hearted generous and true person but i would have that opinion of her no matter where we met as she says who knows what tomorrow holds for us

I wish you all well and hope that some of what i've found can come true for you too.

[Princess_Royal]

Originally posted by tayman
can love online happen?
why not it is not so different to any other way of meeting people only difference is you don't actually know what they lok like.
but you still have to trust that what they say is true
and be honest with them in return, just like in any other relationship.
I also am chatting to someone (special? time will tell but looks good so far) who I met online right here on scotland .com actually and from the various mail we sent and certain posts I can tell that she is a good-hearted generous and true person but i would have that opinion of her no matter where we met as she says who knows what tomorrow holds for us

I wish you all well and hope that some of what i've found can come true for you too.

Thats what web cams are for . Ive made good use of mine..in a non perverted way..lol. But you are right in that you have to trust the person you are talkin to to be honest with you and be honest in return. A couple of people have told me how crazy t is to get attached to someone online, that you've nerver met (yet) and my reply to them ,in my case is that we were friends before things even started to change between us, I liked him anyway. So I know that anything we talk about now, or when he tells me how he feels, I know he means it cos he doesnt have to try and impress me to make me like him cos I already liked him to begin with...does that make sense? LOL...anyway...good luck with your new friend, I hope everything turns out like you both want it to

[druid1616]

[quote]Originally posted by tayman
[b]can love online happen?
why not it is not so different to any other way of meeting people only difference is you don't actually know what they look like.

It could happen but I doubt it.
How is it different well let's see.........
1. he/she could lie about a # of things an you wouldn't have a clue.
2. he/she could totaly be a psyco.
3. eww they could not be attractive...I'm talking shrek people!

[mee]

First off Druid, you have to be mature enough to understand what love is, It's not about looks it's an emotion you feel deep within your soul. Honesty and trust play a vital role. But obviously you are to immature to understand any of what I just said. you are however entitled to your own opinion, as I am mine.