Missing somebody is being around them all the time knowing you can't have them

[Scott27]

I'm in love with a girl a few years older then me but is married with kids. We get on great together and being around her is the most pleasant experience i can have. When i go home at night all i do is think of her, no matter what i do she is always on my mind. I have accepeted the painful reality that she will never love me back. Sometime i feel if i were to never see her again would make me feel better as it's being around her i think what makes my feelings so strong. Its as if she is my wife and i can't have feelings for anybody else as she is the greatest girl in the world to me. I am a wreck.

[kattoy]

Hi Scott27

I am very sorry about your dilema...the only thing I can tell you is what you seem to already know...

You should try and avoid this girl, because you're not only making it hard on yourself but you may be making it difficult for her also... I'm sure there is a girl out there that is perfect for you...as long as you continue to be around this girl your feelings will not change, they will only continue to grow...which will make it hard for you to go on with your life...

I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do...

Kat

[Mistress]

Originally posted by Scott27
I'm in love with a girl a few years older then me but is married with kids. We get on great together and being around her is the most pleasant experience i can have. When i go home at night all i do is think of her, no matter what i do she is always on my mind. I have accepeted the painful reality that she will never love me back. Sometime i feel if i were to never see her again would make me feel better as it's being around her i think what makes my feelings so strong. Its as if she is my wife and i can't have feelings for anybody else as she is the greatest girl in the world to me. I am a wreck.

[i]Welcome to Scotland.com Scott27...

I hope that with passing time.. you find someone that you can hold to your heart.. the same way that you feel for this other women. You need to keep your options opened, because if you limit yourself.. you just might miss out..

Good luck to you and I hope you enjoy your time here. You will meet tons of wonderful people here

Mistress

[druid1616]

that is sooooooooooooo sad.
I honestly don't know if i would stay in the same town or state as the person who is giving me problems(i don't deal i run ) i should work on that . isay you should chuck up an move on or wait to see if she gets a divorce or has a twin

[Scott27]

Thanks for reading my post. I was listening to the greatest song in the world Slide Away by Oasis. The lyrics are exactly how i feel about her. She is so pretty.

[KittyKat04]

Originally posted by Scott27
I'm in love with a girl a few years older then me but is married with kids. We get on great together and being around her is the most pleasant experience i can have. When i go home at night all i do is think of her, no matter what i do she is always on my mind. I have accepeted the painful reality that she will never love me back. Sometime i feel if i were to never see her again would make me feel better as it's being around her i think what makes my feelings so strong. Its as if she is my wife and i can't have feelings for anybody else as she is the greatest girl in the world to me. I am a wreck.

Scott,

I can honestly say that your story was very sad. But you must do what is best for your heart and sanity, which means your going to have to let her go. Now as hard as that will be but in the long run it will be best for your mentality. You will eventually meet Miss Right and she will be the one that will make your heart soar to higher heights.

Wishing you the best of luck and hoping you will be well.

KittyKat

[Talon]

Originally posted by Scott27
Thanks for reading my post. I was listening to the greatest song in the world Slide Away by Oasis. The lyrics are exactly how i feel about her. She is so pretty.

I personally think its terrible that you have allowed yourself to become so attached to her when you knew from the begining she was married... and the fact she has children just componds your stupidity and I must say I have no respect for you.... happy to break up a family... grow a backbone and move on with you life..and let these children have a family thats not wrecked by you

Grow up and have some dignity in yourself for goodness sake... I am sure she probably feels uncomfortable with your big puppy eyes staring at her all the time too..

She has found her life... its about time you found yours.. and left her and her family alone... crazy stalker guy