i want more friends, and i want to find true love!!

[Ludmila]

I want more friends and i want to find love!
i bielive in love, but i am single for too long, so i don't know now what to bielive in.
Well my friend said that i am too beautiful and clever,i think i am okey, so all guys afraid of it. And i think it is true, coz my last boyfriend said the same words, and he said also that he just want somebody who is stupid...
What do you think?
Is it truth, that guys wants stupid girls?

[kathyv]

Hey Ludmila, don't sell yourself short by thinking you are too smart. Any man worth your time is going to want you to be WHO you are and HOW you are. If he only wants someone stupid, it's to make him feel superior, at YOUR expense. Don't accept that.

Love is always worth believing in and I know for sure there is a bright, intelligent and caring man out there for you. Waiting to find him might be hard but it will happen.

Don't give up and don't loose heart. You are beautiful and clever, stay that way!

I believe men don't really want a dumb girl, any more than women want a dumb man.

[Talon]

Hi Ludmila..

Welcome also to Scotland.com..

I agree with kathy.. in that you should always be true to yourself.. if someone does come along and wants to love you then thier love will not be based on how intelligent or beautiful you are, but how good you make them feel inside and how well you both connect.. if this man left you because you were too clever then he probably never loved you in the first place.. As a male myself intelligence and beauty in a partner are both things that I find equally alluring.. Though there would be many other things also that I would look for.. but the abundance or lack of these things still wont decide for me whom I will love... as love has not really got all that much to do with all these things anyway....love is like an inspiration...you either have it or you dont.. you cannot force it nor lay down guidelines for it.....

I am sure you will find someone again Ludmila...just remember to be yourself

[Ludmila]

Thanks everyone!
Thnkas for this nice and clever words. I know that all what you said is right, and i think i knew all that i n my hart already, i just did not want to face all of it in ones.
But now i am ok with all you help.
Now it is new day, like said my good friend. I live in edinburgh, my study place is Glasgow, who knows may fall in love with somebody from Glasgow.
See ya

[Talon]

I am sure you will Ludmila you seem like a nice person and there are lots of nice people in Glasgow..

Good Luck

[Ludmila]

Originally posted by Talon
I am sure you will Ludmila you seem like a nice person and there are lots of nice people in Glasgow..

Good Luck

Hi again!
Thanks, you are nice guy too.
Well, i let you know when i'll find somebody nice.)

[scott213]

good Luck in your search Ludmila..

Remember: True love will come when you least expect it to!

Also, Greetigs from Canada!