THE BEST THINGS ABOUT BEING SINGLE

[KittyKat04]

My oh my, this has been a funny start to this thread. Almost spewed tea on my keyboard. lol

[kattoy]

I agree with most of what I read, but MY #1 reason for my happiness for my very recent single status is my ability to express myself.
I am very proud of ME now, do things just for ME now, and I stick up for ME now!!!

BTW is it just me or do most women work hard at relatinships? I feel as if I was the one that kept it going for as long as it did and find now that it was all for nothing cause in the end I sought to get out and did. Actually I never want to work that hard again, so I would guess that's reason #2

I am sure in time more reasons will present themselves

[Mistress]

Originally posted by KittyKat04
My oh my, this has been a funny start to this thread. Almost spewed tea on my keyboard. lol

[i]lmao..


Mistress

[Mistress]

Originally posted by kattoy
I agree with most of what I read, but MY #1 reason for my happiness for my very recent single status is my ability to express myself.
I am very proud of ME now, do things just for ME now, and I stick up for ME now!!!

BTW is it just me or do most women work hard at relatinships? I feel as if I was the one that kept it going for as long as it did and find now that it was all for nothing cause in the end I sought to get out and did. Actually I never want to work that hard again, so I would guess that's reason #2

I am sure in time more reasons will present themselves

[i]Hey..

Well first let me congratulate you on your recent "ME" status hon.. It's nice to hear that your enjoying this new .. ermmm... perhaps “enlightenment” would be a word! Don't know really..

To be honest, I've not spent much time being single. I do enjoy the company of another, weather it is for a serious relationship, or just fun.

I also feel.. and this is just my opinion, lol.. putting all else aside.. If it's real Love, it's worth the effort of hard work. I agree with you as far as feeling as “WE” women do most of the hard work, but then again, we are not mind readers so perhaps we don't understand, or just can’t image what the men are thinking. I for one know that I always feel as if it’s my mind that is constantly going. That it is me left holding in the tears, etc.. But we can never know the truth to that, and that, I blame on Honesty and Communication.

I have felt several times in my life to hold things back, but in most recent times, I have come to realize that there is no reason for it. I am always trying to learn ways to improve myself, and honesty has to be the first at the top of the list.

There are many reasons I could come up with as a Joking matter of why it is better to be single, but honestly at the end of the day, that would not be my wish.

I want to grow old with My Love.. I want to share things, Memories, stories, if lucky a Family, etc... Aye I am not saying "Marriage" must be a issue but to have that life companion, I will admit it is a comfort to know that there will be a shoulder to cry upon, a Lovers hand to hold at a beloved's funeral or just someone to hold. I have many single friends whom find themselves in terrible situations due to the lack of a hug.. That is not what I would want, and trust me; I know what is capable of happening when those feelings come into play.

urmm.. well Ok.. Just a bit of seriousness.. However, we can take this back to fun.. lol.. perhaps that is a bit more lighter..

Mistress

[kattoy]

Reason #3:

Phone bill, both home and cell will be much improved I'm sure!

Reason #4:

A lot less presents to buy. Rid of him, rid of his obligations too lol

One last serious thing, I didn't say I didn't want a life-partner I just don't want Him, that's all!

[Mistress]

Originally posted by kattoy
Reason #3:

Phone bill, both home and cell will be much improved I'm sure!

Reason #4:

A lot less presents to buy. Rid of him, rid of his obligations too lol

One last serious thing, I didn't say I didn't want a life-partner I just don't want Him, that's all!

[i]Oh I know you didn't say that.. lol.. I was mearly speaking of myself hon.. these are my feelings on it..

and you must explain .. lol.. the phone bill thing to me.. ! Cause I know it's us women who tend to chatter.. a bit much..
he he he

Mistress

[kattoy]

I will explain although thinking back now on it shows me how foolish I was.

Caller ID is the worst invention in the world lol

HE would call, let it ring once, and then hang up! I would of coarse call back, what a fool I was
Not only would I call but I couldn't get a word in edgewise with all HIS talking about things HE was interested in and HIS work, and HIS, HIS, HIS every annoying detail. And you think we women talk too much

Anyway looking back now I realize that I didn't mind then but now I find it very hard to believe that I didn't, along with a lot of other things I put up with

My phones will only ring from now on I refuse to make another phone call lol