you don't have to read its sorda kinda long, and you probably don't care

[HollyElise]

Originally posted by Texas
Boys really dont ever understand how women feel...unless women tell them. And 15 year old boys have no concept of monogamy...its all fun and games at that age. Im sure he likes you though...or he wouldnt want to hang with you.

At that age?

Texas, are YOU still 15?

[Simone_MN_USA]

LMAO

...he acts like he is..

[mell]

awwwwwwwwwwww toni come here and give me a hug....you sound just like me when i was 15......
by the sounds of it this guy must be a bit of a looker, if he is able to flirt with every girl and not be slapped for it..lol.... but i would say yes and no to your question....yes he is enjoying himself... and no i doubt that he is aware that he is hurting anyone..does he know that you like him? you should find that out first...cause maybe he is unaware of your feelings, and maybe when he does find out he will stop witht he flirting with others...but dont expect it to stop completly...they never do...boys will always be complicated ....istill dotn fully understand ...and i am 25 so ...hold onto your seat..lol
and my last bit of addy for ya, if he doesnt reciprocate your feelings...dont be fashed,,, go to your dance and kick up your heels with the girls.....and you never know what other spunky guy is watching you from the corner of the room trying to work up the courage to talk to you...hee hee...goodluck treasure..

[susandel]

mell..........good answer!

[scottishlover4eva]

yea he knows that I like him. But now me and him are having some kind of competition. He saw me hugging my friend (who is a boy) and he gets all jelous and starts huuging another girl. And everytime he sees me talk or hug another guy he has to hug or start flirting with a girl. I'm not intentionally doing this . And now he doesn't flirt with me as much and, I dunno I think he is losing interest.(lol)

[susandel]

We have all been in your shoes and we can help you IF you really want advise to learn by. It is not easy for you because it is the greatest feeling to have a guy to think about.

You can talk all you want about your problem but why don't we fine out what you want from this guy.

So far we know that you were mad at him for flirting.....with a friend maybe? Then in his eye's you were talking and hugging a...... friend maybe? Then he did the same thing blah blah blah........ Now he is mad at you and may not ask you to the dance.

What would happen if you were to take mell's advice and be honest with him. Talk to him and see what his opinion is? Tell us what you are really thinking and don't feel stupid about your thoughts.....we understand and probably thought the same thing.

[HappyAboutMyRoots]

Okay I had a guy like that when i was in 12th grade(which was 3 yrs ago).He was just a complete flirt and he didnt like just one girl he liked them all,than if u tell him you like him he will tell everybody and you might feel like a bonehead.atleast i did. and the messed up thing is the boy is still an immature bonehead( he hangs out iwth my best friends brother) so i think if you have him jealous he has some type of feelings for you maybe you should ask him if he likes you? or get one of your friends to ask for you