Naughty, naughty

[Simone_MN_USA]

I totally agree with you on how "open" you can be and how you can just "let it all hang out" with people you meet on the net who you have become great friends with...I certainly am. I've told certain friends i've met on the net things I wouldn't even think of telling my friends here. i have a hard time expressing my feelings when talking to someone face to face..but with words..it's so much easier, and my feelings flow right onto the keyboard.

[susandel]

Hey Simone.....you just said something that gave me an idea. First of all my life is an open book.....maybe that is why I am writing a book about my suckie/great life.......but my point is my husband keeps everything in. Everything. He can not open up to anyone and he is a time bomb waiting to explode. If you think this internet really helps you get things out that are inside you maybe I can introdoce Roland to this. He is a workaholic.....I mean from 8:00 A.M. until 4:00 A.M. ....... and yes he is at the office all the time. His office is right down the road. That is why we live were we do. When he gets home early in the A.M. I can see him on my computer working away...........this is how he winds down. I have been looking for help for ages and I think you just solved my problem. Now I have to find something that will interest him.........maybe a porn chat room? No............he would not do that......it could be traced.......well I will find something. Thanks pal!

Susan

[Simone_MN_USA]

Hey! i'm glad i could help...
I've met some really nice people here at scotland.com and sweden.com..and I count them as some of my closest friends.. yet they all live in different states or countries..lol I try and stay away from the more political topics in some of the forums, and stick mainly to the fun, light-hearted ones..

[HollyElise]

TexisRed, thank you so much for sharing this story. It is very sad. I feel sorry for Lisa and her friend who came to visit. Of course Lisa was very wrong to lie, but i'm sure she sees that all too plainly now. It was a very painful lesson, and probably did not help her already very low self-esteem. I wish i could offer some wisdom, but i can't think of any. But i do hope something good eventually comes of this for her.

best wishes.

[susandel]

Good morning y'all,

Hey I was thinking about Lisa and the drop by guy last night. You know.......I would be spooked if some guy came to see my family if I died and he knew me from the internet. It this a weird thing for someone to do? I think Lisa should have remained annonymous and also she should have never given her address out so freely if she had lied about herself in the first place.

I just keep thinking about how she must feel as a person to have to pretend to be someone else. I am actually attracted to larger men........I am a girl.........and there are many men who are attracted to a larger woman. I know I am obsessing about this but I feel so bad for Lisa. Hey Tex.........are you Lisa? If so we need to chat privately. I know weight issues because my life revolves around food. I live to eat not eat to live. But I am thin...........I think of food all day and night.

Sorry but I can't get this off my mind.

Susan

[texisred]

hi, susan, and thanks for writing again. like the old jessi colter song, no, 'i'm not lisa.' lol. you know, actually i'd say she's doing okay now. she's back in college after a hiatus (due to health problems) and i really think she learned from her experience with craig....that it's better to be oneself, no matter what the circumstances.
it's true, it IS kinda creepy to think that someone whom we've met over the internet might just show up at our door, unannounced. it definitely should give one pause as to what personal information is listed in profiles and etc. all craig had needed to find lisa's family was her surname. from that, he found their address in the phone directory.
i'm over-weight myself, and that's how i came to know lisa in the first place--thru a sort of over-eaters anonymous meeting. i think body image is a problem for many, many of us. i can't imagine ever being reconciled to my size, but it's a goal i'm trying to reach. in these days of 'political correctness' i'm really amazed that so many people are still prejudiced against 'people of size,' but the world does indeed change slowly, so maybe one of these days.....

[susandel]

Texisred it is a real BIG deal being over wieght. Did you know the average size is now size 14? That is shocking. I am from a family of 8 kids and I was the only big one in the lot. It was tough being the fat, flat dumd Dislexic. Although no one else in my family ever teased me about flat and dumb the boys and one sister nicknamed be Elephante......it was said in Latin. I hated it. I would make fun of myself before anyone else did so I was considered funny. I hated myself for years. I was athletic so that was a help. My OA meetings are so far away that I don't go. I did go to AA and still would go except I have MS so I can not drive since February so no meeting. It serves the same purpose as OA. I have looked on the internet for OA meeting and have found none. They have AA meetings but they do not do the same thing because you have to participate.....so it is not the same thing. I have gained 20 pounds since February and I only ate 800 calories a day for so long and still gained. Now I ear 1500 a day. I was in bed untill about a month ago and Tuesday I actually started walking again. Yippy. All I think about is driving soon and going to work out. I am still thin.....I was to thin before. It is one way or the other with me.

Thanks for sharing that with me. If you ever want to start a chat room for fluffy people I am in.

Susan