Am I gay?

[BatEl]

Well only u will know if u r...but seems u r just thinking on the "Grass may b greener on the other side" sort of thing! It the feeling & thinking persists...well u have 2 check it out....Good Luck. & pop in anytime 4 a chat....Cheers no Tears the Bat

[KAYLEIGH]

I dont think you are gay, but I think we all have these feelings at some time in our lives. I did, and acted upon it, enjoyed every minute of it and realised that I was and am attracted to both sexes. I would definately talk to your husband if you are serious about your feelings. Have fun. xx

[Texasmujer]

Hi, Wanderer...It seems you are having some questions regarding your sexuality---it's good that you are in a healthy relatinship that allows you to ask your partner his thoughts on this tiopic; you will need this because any abrupt change has the potential to affect quite a number of people dear to you. I suggest (I can't TELL...only you can decide what to finally do) you need to have a meaningful (and honest) discussion with your partner regarding this major decision. Just be aware it can have some drastic long term effects on your family. You and only you can make the final decision. Good luck. You ask if you are gay...probably a lot o people ask this question---again, only you can answer this; with the help of your partner, you should be able to work this out. I hope this helps.

[SKMan]

just a passing phase...

dun worry about it

[Texasmujer]

All's well that ends well, so I guess everythings fine---GREAT!! That's how it's meant to be---

[Texasmujer]

You know yourself better thtan any of 'us' do; if you can tolerate some exploration...then...do what feels good to you; you can share this with your husband...or not; again, this is entirely up to you.

I hope it all works out for you. I've known people who CAN tolerate experimentation,and, I've known others who, in the end could not; you just need to know your own tolerance for experimentation. Good luck; I wish you well...